Being a Parent

More than anything else, I want to be a good parent. I have no models, no experience in this endeavor. An Aspie cannot take parenting classes...it just doesn't work that way. I only know how to do, that which I have previously experienced. I have no family to sit and observe or ask questions of. I'm not looking for pat answers. I love and adore my boys, but that isn't enough. I need parenting smarts and intelligence, role models and askable peoples.